Reader Favorites

Below are a list of favorite posts as voted by you. If you enjoyed some of my writing then these also come recommended. Thanks for reading.

Euthanasia

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I poured a lot of emotional energy into this story. I am pleased that it turned out so well and that it touched so many people. It is a fitting tribute to my friend.

Twat Pills

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“I’m trying to think of a way to write this story so you will let me tell it.”
When I say this to my wife, she is standing over a mirror, with a foot on either side. I’d add, “in a compromising position,” but that’s redundant. You can’t straddle a mirror in a prudish way. It [...]

An Infertility Love Letter

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I’ve been surprised to learn that everyone has fertility issues, or has a connection to someone who does. For my wife and I, last year was dominated by a pursuit of pregnancy. I thought I would start this new year by sharing some observations about that.
We decided to be open about what we were doing [...]

A Decision

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My wife, Michelle, and I are trying to have a baby. That is of note because we had emphatically decided not to do that. We changed our minds, obviously, and in retrospect, the vasectomy seems a little rash.

Spiders

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Pound for pound there’s nothing as scary as a spider. What would you rather fight, a 200 pound dog, cat, man, gorilla, or spider? Of course, that’s not fair. A gorilla that big is normal, but if you look outside your window and see a spider the size of a labrador retriever, then shit has gone seriously sideways, you are trapped in a Stephen King novel. Still though, spiders, you don’t want a big one on your face. I think we can all agree on that.

IVF Egg Retrieval

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The next major step of In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) is obtaining an egg. Actually, the objective is to get several. The process is invasive, and involved, so the best result is to harvest multiple eggs at the same time. To do this you need drugs.

I Want A Baby

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Many friends of Michelle and I have newborns. As we tour our old stomping grounds in Edmonton, visiting from house to house, it becomes clear that we are the victims of a conspiracy. Each baby contrives to portray its very best: smiling, giggling, interactive, and beautiful. Driving away at the end of the day, after five of these sessions, I look at my wife and say something for the first time in my life, “I want to have a baby.”

Ultimate Soldier

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possible_careersI finally finished this story which I have been publishing in increments. I’m actually quite pleased with it.

Redemption

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I was walking with a friend of mine in the quiet little park behind my house when we were attacked by a group of kids. My friend managed to escape. I was pepper sprayed, beaten senseless, and robbed. It has been a year now and a couple chipped teeth are all that remains of the physical damage, but an episode like that lingers with you. I have been turning those thoughts over and over. The rough edges have been worn away and they are now familiar enough to write about. Here they are then, those smooth little pebbles.

Man That Guys Got Balls

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I had a vasectomy a few years ago. The operation itself was a non-issue. Fifteen minutes from the time I walked into the office until I walked out sterile. The only interesting part of the process was that an attractive intern assisted. Her roll paralleling the person that puts their finger on the ribbon so someone else can tie a bow. She had little to do, so we chatted while they were tying me off. Then I went home and promptly told my wife that another woman touched my balls.

A Wake

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I had never been to a wake. A couple of funerals. Not a fan. I liked the wake though.
I only met John a few years before he was diagnosed with cancer. My wife met his girl, Janet, in Vegas, where they became fast friends, and this was quickly followed by a legendary ski weekend. We [...]

Heckler

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I lost my innocence last week. A person I don’t know went out of their way to tell me I sucked. I got my first heckler.
It was inevitable, there is one in very crowd, and the internet is certainly that. The guy who’s soul contribution is, “You suck.”
My heckler commented on this article, in which [...]

Name the Gnome

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If you occasionally host a party characterized by excesses in food and drink people think of you as a fun couple. When you do it as often as Michelle and I people begin to talk about twelve step programs. Subtle misdirection and thin facades help a lot. My point is that our Name the Gnome BBQ was a success.

No Pants Night

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Me: Where are those cheese buns? Hey! Did you eat both of those cheese buns?
Michelle: Um, ya, sorry, I was hungry.
Me: Really? Both of them?
Michelle: Sorry. I didn’t mean to.
Me: Of course you meant to. You ate them. You have to mean to eat something.
Michelle: I’m sorry. Do you love me?
Me: Ya, but slightly less now that I know you ate both of those fucking cheese buns.
Michelle: Watch it, or we’ll cancel “No Pants Night”.

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An Argument Against Recycling

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The symbol has become pervasive. Blue boxes, bins, and bags are everywhere inviting you to recycle your unwanted mess. Doing so likely provides you with an unconscious little shot in the arm; a good ‚I’m doing my part‚ feeling. Except we are not really accomplishing much.

In Defence Of BP

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I worked at one of the big multinational oil companies doing environmental work. I spent millions of dollars cleaning up environmental spills, and I never encountered any evil. I know the stories, I’ve seen Erin Brockovich, but that wasn’t my experience working for a big oil company.
A coworker of mine was preparing for a public [...]

Surrogacy

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I performed the wedding ceremony at my youngest sister’s wedding a few years ago. Another sister volunteered to to be a surrogate mother for my wife and I, modern science will let her carry our baby. I was tempted just so I could start a story with the line, “I married my sister, but my [...]

Officer Michelle

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I’m setting up a company. There’s been progress on the whole search for the dream job thing, that’s not what this is about though.
“The lawyer asked about setting up corporate officers.”
“I’m the officer. Officer Michelle. I’m in charge.”
“Then I think we should get you a uniform.”

A Low Woman Bullshit Factor

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penelope_cruzSitting across from me is a woman that reminds me of Penelope Cruz. She is petite with delicate Latin features and smooth skin. Her top plunges below a diminutive bust line to reveal the lace edges of her bra, which she manages to make look sexy and elegant. She is extravagantly beautiful.

I would do it for you

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It’s good to push boundaries. It helps you grow and experience new things, and sometimes it reinforces why there are boundaries in the first place.

Michelle: (lifting her arm) Is that B.O.? I just showered. Check.
Dirk: I’m not smelling your armpit.
Michelle: I’d do it for you if you asked.
Dirk: I wouldn’t ask, and that’s the difference.

Religious Zealots

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I have a certain appreciation for strangers that knock on my door to talk about religion, but I am less impressed with their sales pitch.

Division of Chores

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kittenThe shredder holds very little, and when it fills up, the blades of the machine begin to feed on the entrails of its previous victims. It’s like I can hear smoke coming out of it. I lift the top off, and look down at the tangled mess I knew I would find, and think, “Can’t she fucking hear that!”

Brussels

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If you’re looking for adventure, don’t hide in a corner, sit at the bar.
I had a great time in Brussels and it all stemmed from stepping up to a bar and showing an interest in the local beers, which Belgians are passionate about. When asked for my order at a restaurant or bar, my most [...]

A Whisper

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I did not get caught. I did not become addicted. I did not kill a boy. Circumstance and luck are more responsible than destiny or good judgement. Less separates us than we believe. I did not kill a boy, but I might have.
Four masked individuals approached my friend and I on Halloween night in the [...]

The Plan

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When does The Plan stop being The Plan? We anticipate, create visions, project into the future, it’s a uniquely human curse. When The Plan fails to mesh with real life do you revise it, abandon it, or create a new one?
When we first started In Vitro Fertilization we secretly entertained notions of an easy home [...]

Just Breathe

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Forever on the edge, waiting. Always the promise, never the realization. It feels like I’ve been holding my breath for a year.
Anticipation, excitement, heart break, disappointment, anxiety, worry, frustration. It’s draining. I want off this ride. I want a vacation, a respite from decisions, a postponement on planning, an interlude to breathe deeply.
What the future [...]

Vasectomy

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I have been asked to share my perspective on vasectomies, and not simply because I have had two of them. I also got an infection following the second one, which made for a funny story, but I narrowly averted loosing one of my testicles. Then my wife and I changed our minds, and decided to [...]

A Dash Of Judgement

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A boy and his mother walk by my seat on the patio, and he has the biggest kicking and screaming fit I have ever seen. It is epic. The boy is too big for her to physically drag home, although she tries. He yells, and stomps, and sends his rubber boot flying with a poorly [...]

Religious Zealots – Old and Improved

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Two older gentlemen come to the door and talk to me about Jesus. They are an improvement on my last Religious Zealots. I like the look of them. They have on their Sunday best, which is out of fashion, and worn at the elbows, but they look like nice, kindly fellows, and they both wear [...]

Gynecology

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There is more to your reproductive system than your vagina. That is the title of a chapter in a fertility book I flipped through today at the clinic. Turns out, it’s true.

Fertility Clinic

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The names of professionals occupying the building are indicated by glass panels mounted outside the doors in the hallway. As we leave, Michelle points out a panel etched with the name “Butkis”, and has a little giggle. I can already envision her making fart jokes with the child we are here to conceive, and it makes me smile.

Do Not Resuscitate

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“Oh, not too good man. They can’t treat him with chemo and they think radiation will kill him.” This is how the conversation begins.

The Project Conclusion

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one_sheet1The Project ended this week. Like many things, it did not go as I planned. I thought I would spend some enjoyable time discovering what I wanted to do for a living, identify a few companies to speak to about my plans, secure an exciting high paying job in a non-traditional manner, save the world a little while I was at it, and write about my progress, which would be fun for me, and inspiring for you. I was willing to be flexible on saving the world and inspiring you. Plans don’t get any easier.

She Can Dish It

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Michelle: Screw it, I’m not wearing makeup today.

Dirk: What! How are people going to know you’re good enough to be with me?

Michelle: Oh, I think that’s pretty obvious.

Bubble Girl

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This is one of my personal favorites, and the best lead-in hook I’ve written. I wrote it in response to a challenge presented to me by another blogger.

There is a lot of standing around at first. I’m not sure what to do. Mostly I watch the pretty girls and help with the ropes.

Dryer Ball Wars

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My wife brought home two dryer balls. No, I had no idea what they were either. Egg shaped, covered with short thick spikes, made of a stiff pliable silicon, it sits in the palm of your hand. It looks like a dog’s chew toy, or a sex toy gone horribly wrong.

Trilingual

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Fluency in French is a requirement at the Royal Military College. I received daily instruction in the subject during the year I attended. I worked my way down until I reached the class at the bottom of the system, which you could politely say was for the linguistically challenged.

Trick Or Punch

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I was mugged on Halloween night. Generally I like to tell stories here of a more humorous and light hearted vein so I was initially unsure I would relate the event at all. I have elected to do so for a couple of reasons.

Job Searching

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I’ve been looking at the hundreds of resumes I’ve received, I conducted just shy of one hundred interviews last week, and a few people have asked me for resume critiques lately. It seems like a good time for some job seeking advise. Keep in mind that I spent more than a year failing to find [...]

Fries with that?

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He said it would happen but I didn’t believe it. I’m training for the restaurant my wife and I are opening. I spent two weeks learning the front of house and am now doing two weeks in the kitchen. I’ve discovered a restaurant is the anti-mullet; party in the front, business in the back. It’s [...]